Racism in Australia

There has been quite a lot of talk about ‘Racism in Australia’ in the recent past. Being an Indian and having lived and worked in Australia for well over an year, I thought it might be worthwhile to pen down my views on the topic to give people an un-sensationalized picture. I will also write a few things about what we as Indians can do to avoid becoming victims of the same.

At the outset, I do admit that racism is prevalent in Australia to an extent. In my experience I have seen that the acceptance for Indians is on the lower side specially in elderly folks. Many of them still view India as a third world country. Thanks to movies like ‘Slumdog Millionaire’ which have successfully strengthened this feeling. So the very idea of living side-by-side with people from a place full of chronic poverty, hunger, disease and filth is just not comfortable. This feeling of disgust is further fortified when they see Indians competing with them in every sphere of life, especially the job market. Some people from Northern India might be able to relate this feeling of disgust; they might have experienced it when they see bhaiyas from Bihar coming to their state and flourish well. So, in my opinion its basically this feeling of disgust that comes out as attacks.

Now having said that racism is prevalent to an extent, I do not mean that it has marred every aspect of the society . I had some very good and rewarding experiences while working here. My boss at work is an Australian and he has always treated me and other Indians at par with the local Australians in the team. We have always been given a fair share of all the opportunities and rewards. He highly values our contribution and admires the fact that we all are living far away from our families to work on the project. He as well as our other Australian colleagues, have always tried that we never feel out of place. So the onus is on us Indians to reciprocate the same respect and love, and blend in the local culture. And admittedly we have failed to do so in more than occasions. I will give some examples of this:
1. Many of my Indian colleagues didn’t have a hair cut for well over 10 months. You might be laughing but its true. The simple reason being AUD 20 (average cost of a regular hair-cut) translates to ~ Rs. 800. And who in India will pay such kind of money for a haircut. One of our guys went a little over board and in an attempt to hide his over grown hair, he started oiling them with Amla oil. And trust me the smell of that was unbearable even though I have used the same oil many times.
2. We never think it to be our duty to clean up our table after having lunch. I am talking about doing so in office lunch room where we bring our own food from home. That’s because we always have cleaners in India who do their job promptly as soon as we finish our lunch. And now there are no cleaners, not just in Australia, nowhere in the west. And people here clean their own mess. But we as Indians just don’t get this idea.
3. We have this terrible habit of over-working, spending over-hours at work. While in some case this might be necessary and helpful, we end up building wrong expectations in the long run. People start expecting us to work long hours and on weekends.
4. We also have a habit of switching to our native language as soon as we start talking to someone from our region, ignoring anyone else’s presence who can’t understand it. I have noticed my fellow Indians doing so in lifts and many meetings. Sometimes it is also viewed as if you want to pass a secret message, which of course is not good. I am not against talking in ones native language. In fact, I love to talk in Punjabi (my native language), but not at the cost of disrespect to others.

As I said, I did have some experience of racism at my workplace. It was not right in the face but there was a certain air of dislike for Indians. Fortunately, I was able to handle it well. It took me a while to convince people that Indians can be sophisticated too, that we are a right mix of style and substance, that our presence here is for a mutual benefit and not a threat to their existence, and that India is not just the land of Taj Mahal, curries and cricket. There is more to India. It’s a whole new world, brimming with enthusiasm and energy. And we represent the same.

What next !!

One of my friends gave GMAT last week and scored 740.So these days both of us are trying to find answers to some of the most common questions. Though both of us are trying to find answers for him, I ask the same questions to myself and don’t get much of satisfactory answers:
1. Why do you want to do an MBA?
Ahmmmm...Ummmm...just because everyone around is doing it, or may be I don’t have an appetite to continue in a technical line for all my life...or I want to shift from software to some other field..or may be I have reached a point where I feel that I can not grow more if I continue staying technical and MBA might be a jumpstart...
I don’t have a definitive anwser..it could be all of the above or none of the above or may be a mix..
2. What do you plan to do after MBA?
Hmmmm….consulting..marketing..sales…research..finance..retail..well I think for most of these I don’t even understand what they actually involve. I think I just understand what they mean but if I have to write even five lines for each of them, I am at loss of words/thoughts/ideas…
3. How about the school selection, financing MBA etc.
If at any stage I think for an MBA, I will have to decide on some matters of vital importance to me...my family planning, my current job, my wife’s career, my responsibilities to my family…etc...
So for the next few weeks, both of us, me and my friend are going to find answers to some of the questions above.
If there is anybody reading out there and can point us in the right direction, it would be great!!

The life so far

I started working for a software company over 4 years back. They had hired us directly from the college.There is no bigger joy than getting a good campus placemenet.Its always like all the hardwork one does in 10th board exams,12th entrance and then the enginnering has become successful.
26 of us were picked up from the college and taken to Trivandrum,a distant place in south India, for almost 3 months for initial training.
Although I had been living in hostels for over 6 years then, it was for the 1st time,I was going so far from home.
They used to have a mid-term exam.The company had offices all across the country.It was largely on the basis of midterm exam that individuals were allcated to the offices.
I had always wanted to go to Bangalore, the software capital of the nation.Luckily I was ranked in top 4 of my 400+ strngth batch.It was almost sure tht I will get the location of my choice.Now I had to fill in 3 options.I was talking to my mom over the phone and filling my choices.My first choice was Bangalore, 2nd as hyderabad.
I still remember my mom was almost into tears,she asked me to fill atleast the 3rd choice as Delhi.But I was too inconsiderate! I filled some other location as 3rd option.
I got to Bangalore..continued with the same company for a while..worked hard..got another job and all..from a professional standpoint,my choice of Bangalore has given me everything I wanted,a good job,high rank,worldwide travel..anything one would desire for a successfull career.But it also has taken away a lot from me..
I still grieve if I could go back in time and change my 1st choice to Delhi.
Ever since I am stuck in a far away place from home.I cant go back....
life is moving on..getting farther from my home with every passing moment.
I miss everything I left back,my family,my town,the simplicity in life, the sweet memories of home...
cant I just break all the barriers and go back...
at this point, i remember the song from chak de india "maula mere le le meri jaan"..

Why to Blog?

This is my first blog ever! I am wondering why should I blog? Is that just because everyone around does? or is it something that I want to share with the world?

Alright, start with some basic stuff..who am I, what do I do etc.
I am an engineering graduate, did my BE in Electronics & Communication, something I could never develop an interest in. But I had passion for computers..which has eventually taken me to the job of a software engineer in Bangalore.
I have been married for over two years. My wife is in IT too.

This much for the first post.
Lets see how far it goes!